Stayed at home and did nthg in the morning, jz spent my time typing and earned some money there. Sometimes, i always wonder, is she really so damn busy? Got dinner there n here, or need to go out with family there and here everday, or even need to help her cousin to buy things there n here. Sometimes when my parents ask me out, and i need to follow her timetable, can only go out with them when she is not free and dont hv time for me, leaving me some free time. Some other times, i even reject my parents because i need to go out with her. Maybe she will think I am stupid, and says that she never asks me to sacrifice so much for this relationship. But the question is that, if both persons all do the same thing without really thinking about sacrificing some time to spend time with each other, then how can u maintain the relationship? I know that everyone will gets tired after getting in relationship for a long time and feels very tired to do or sacrifice something to maintain it. But, if you start to feel tired and become lazy when you are still in a relationship, then what about your life after marriage? Wont it be even worse until such a level that both persons got nthg to talk about with each other? I can tell u first, i dont want that kind of marriage and i will ask for a divorce straight away, cause i cant bear a life like that and i dont want my kids to grow up under such atmosphere. No family love, how can my kids be happy then? Maybe for certain people, that is normal and okay for them, but i am not okay for this kind of life. Well, at least for now, i am still trying to put in some efforts to ensure a happy relationship, buying things for her from time to time, taking her out whenever it is possible. I hope that it is same for her too.
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